By Joanne Guidoccio
I realize this is contrary to all the advice that’s out there. But there is something to be gained by analyzing the selected thoughts of our inner critic and taking action.
How can you distinguish those selected thoughts?
Very simply, take note of all sentences that start with “Someone should…”
Here are some examples:
“Someone should write a letter to the editor about that issue. It’s bugging me.”
“Someone should organize an arts festival that showcases the talents of artists, artisans, musicians, and writers in our county.”
“Someone should put her name forward for an executive position on that board. We need new blood.”
“Someone should design and create clothes that fit and flatter women over fifty.”
“Someone should offer decorating services for seniors, who are moving into assisted living, retirement and nursing homes, or downsizing to a condo.”
“Someone should write a cookbook filled with nutritious, easy-to-prepare recipes for singles and couples on budgets.”
“Someone should run for mayor.”
Once you have identified your favorite “Someone should,” it’s time to…
Entering the political arena, assuming an executive role in a non-profit organization, organizing an arts festival, writing a novel…these are all goals that can be accomplished but probably not within the immediate future.
Instead, set move-the-needle steps for the season in which you are in. These small steps will lead to larger ones, and subsequent steps will always be within your grasp
You could start by attending an information meeting, offering to help with an established arts festival, signing up for an online or offline course, joining a local writing group, or listening to a webinar. Don’t worry if certain steps don’t work out. Keep moving forward and course-correct along the way.